Staying home..

I am having a really hard time withs staying at work. I know I'll be staying home when baby number 2 gets here but right now I'm still working and my 3 year old son is still not potty trained. I know I know. I try so hard burgers just not getting it. So daycare called me today telling me he is having no improvement and they aren't sure what else to do. So I'm a emotional mess bc my work hours are crazy and I know that if I'd just stay home nowhere be potty trained. I just feel that I'm not giving him all he needs while working these insane hours. 😢😢😢😢