Is he cheating?

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He will always be late to my house and never have an excuse. I went through his phone and didn't see anything but he could've erased them. Idk if I'm just being pariniod. He acts really different. His temper is very short and he's been really mean. We both had the day off today and he's just now coming when he had all day to come it's 7 pm right now and he's still not here. Idk what to think. Please help

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Those signs can depict different things. Sometimes yes, it could be a sign that he's cheating, but from my personal experience, he's probably just taking you for granted. Guys don't express their feelings much, so when they act this way, its a sign saying "I'm completely bored with this relationship". My exes used to do that because they thought I would never leave anyway, so they could go out and do whatever they wanted without thinking of the consequences. This is just from my personal experience, but when my ex started to realize that he have me now, he just stopped trying to keep me. He left and went out whenever he wanted, he stopped giving me attention and we argued alot because he wasn't willing to try to communicate, plus, he grew a short temper. It wasnt until when we broke up that he realized he lost me and screwed up.

If you're unsure, just try to communicate with him about how you are feeling and just straight up ask him, "are you cheating on me?". Guys can't read hints, they need straight up questions. And if problems continue, there's a high chance that he just doesn't care and he's taking you for granted or he really is cheating, either way, you don't deserve it and he's better off gone. I hope this helps :)

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Follow your gut.

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Tell him how you feel

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Have you brought this up to him

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Don't go through his phone first of all. I would be LIVID if my partner did that. As in if he disrespected my privacy to snoop around on my personal property I would dump him. No apologies and no remorse. If he was always wondering why I wasn't home at a certain time or why I didn't bother to contact him or was monitoring the time between me getting off work and me getting home; I would dump him. 
Second, you could (without realizing it) be sending signals that you think something is wrong. That can aggravate people.

You need to talk to him. Don't come off as controlling or as though you're pointing fingers.

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