To sprinkle or not to sprinkle?

Rachele
For those having a second or third, etc are you going to have a sprinkle with close family and friends? Is it appropriate or greedy? I'm going back and forth with this-esp. if I have a girl this time around. Would love cute girly outfits. No big tickets items but diapers, wipes, clothing, blankets would be appreciated ☺️