Ladies, I finally have him, so why am I so scared? explain.

Question

I been single for about, two years now and it would've been three this summer. After being heart broken by numerous FuckBoy's here in Tampa, I finally found my prince, his name is Chris. Anyways, it's only been a week and I feel like I'm fucking shit up because last night we had a fight because I'm scared to show me feelings and he is completely right. He was so shocked and said "I've never had a girl not be sexually attracted to me" I am sexually attracted to him, but when he talks dirty to me, I kinda freak out alittle on the inside. I don't know what to say, how to do it, or send him sexy pictures. How do I fix myself? Because look at that face, I don't know what the heck is wrong with me and I don't want to lose him.

How could I not be attracted to that. Legit. Quivering.

Answer

Being that you guys have only been together a week I wouldnt advise doing anything sexual with him... & he definitely shouldn't be giving you a hard time about it... Yes he's attractive but if your not ready your just not ready... Your not screwing up he is for even trying to initiate anything sexual after 1 week...

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Don't take this the wrong way but that sounds like a really bs excuse to not come and see you.  Coming to see you isn't the same as moving in and starting a family.  It sounds like he might be avoiding the face to face.  Hey I could be wrong but that's why I asked about the face to face video messages

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Be honest with him and tell him your not good at dirty talk but tell him a good way to start getting more comfortable is talking about your fantasies with one another.  It's a good jumping point and an opportunity for you to crack open your shell slowly.  Don't be afraid to express yourself.  Nothing risked nothing gained.  I mean if hes up for it tie him up blind fold his deliciously naughty little self and whisper your fantasies in his ear while you slowly tease and touch him.  Then make him tell you his while he's still tied up.

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Did you actually hang out in person?

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I would not be having sex after 1 week he needs to respect you and you need to tell him thay you want to get to know him as a person not jist jump on bed with him that will doom this thing if you do I am a firm believer in why buy the cow if the milk os free I didn't sleep with my husband until we were dating for 3 months and he will follow me to the end of the earth respect is huge and just cuz he is good looking doesn't mean you should be anything other than yourself

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He doesn't want to have sex, he's being patient with that. He just wants me to be able to express myself, feelings and stuff. He likes to talk dirty and that's something I haven't done in awhile and it makes me hella nervous. I don't know how to do it or what to say. He told me I make him feel like I'm not physically attracted to him.

Ladies, I finally have him, so why am I so scared? explain.

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