need advise

I need advise I know I am hormonal and maybe I can't see my husbands views because of it. But he gets really upset cause I don't do much around the house. My shift starts at 10:30 most days so I wake up at 8 shower go downstairs at 9 make myself food we live in different state then my parents so I call them before I go to work for about 30 minutes I get home around 6 to 7:30 after work depending on what time kids go home and I am drained so I eat because I am starving then I go to sleep around 8 or 9 because I am exhausted and nothing really gets done around the house and he hates it and makes me feel horrible for it and I don't know what else I can do am I just being lazy?