partner with herpes

Ok so I've been talking to this guy for a few months now and we seem to really click, but haven't been more serious bc he told me he has genital herpes. I really like him and could see myself being with him but this has me so paranoid. I'm 25 and would be horrified if I got it. Has anyone safely dated someone long term who had it, but never gave it to you? Any tips/suggestions?