Okay so long story short I had a miscarriage. When I did I was put on bed rest and didn't leave the couch for 6 days to shower eat nothing. Even when I went to the bathroom my fiancée rolled me to and from the couch in our office chair. 3 days into it I found out my best friend who is going to my maid of honor is having a miscarriage too. I was in no condition to talk to anyone. Now she is ganging up on me with her SO and telling me that I needed to be there for her. But how did she expect me to be there for her miscarriage when I couldn't even handle my own?!? Please give some advice good or bad