Friends? 🤔

i'm in a group chat with 3 of my closest friends Josh, Shy, & Britt. we all finally had time to spend time together he other night & they know i'm pregnant. but Britt asked if they wanted to match & smoke with her knowing i'm pregnant & cant be around that. it might not be a big deal to other people but it is to me because i never get to see my friends anymore because of our schedules & school. & i really felt some type of way because she asked in front of me knowing i wouldn't be able to chill with them since they was gonna be smoking. then my friend Shy kept telling me to go anyway because he knew other females who smoked weed & cigarettes while they was pregnant & their babies are just fine. I told him that just because they had that outcome, it doesn't mean i'll have the same one & that i'm not doing anything to jeopardize this pregnancy because they all knew how much my husband & i have been waiting for this.