Ok. I wanna ask a serious question. There are times that my bf & I are getting down in the bedroom... and I'm turned on by the foreplay, but when I ride the feeling goes away. Does anyone experience the same thing?

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Before this post gets out of hand, I love our sex life! But my vagina has a mind of its own. Some days I orgasm quick & others... well it takes what seems like hours to get there. I just wanna know if others experience the same thing & how they deal with it. Be honest with me!

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You're not alone!!
My fiancé and I have a great sex life. Just sometimes I go into space. Sometimes it can be from stress, not in the mood and you're just pushing it.

He understands and I'll stay to let him finish. 
Sometimes it is reverse. If he is stress from work he will just be happy letting me finish.

But if this happens many times a week, than you need to try a new position or more forplay. Also make sure there is still touching and talking going on during sex. 
Having a silent, non touching is just awkward.

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Try positioning yourself differently. Like. Lean back. Or lean forward. Or scoot back.

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I completely understand. If you're more turned on by foreplay talk your guy into fingering you until you're about to come, and then let him ram into you. It helps transition from foreplay to sex.

Ok. I wanna ask a serious question. There are times that my bf & I are getting down in the bedroom... and I'm turned on by the foreplay, but when I ride the feeling goes away. Does anyone experience the same thing?

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