Interesting Sex

I slept with my partner for the first time recently and everyone always talks about how their hymen ripped or that it hurt or whatever. I didn't have that problem. Is that weird?

Also, he has tried to try it on all fours. But he can't figure out where my vagina is... I have an awkward about of skin there and I feel awkward about it whenever we're sleeping together. Is there a way to like.... Remove it?