Am I really one of the only girls that doesn't expect Valentines day to be this huge thing, so many materialistic shallow girls posting about how their boyfriend didn't do enough for them. Shame on them, him trying should have been enough. I really hope those guys find someone else to treat them nicely and not like a fucking gift giver. Been with my boyfriend for 4 years and what are we doing right now? Sleeping in. I don't expect anything, in fact he has plans with his friend today. What about today do you hold to a higher expectation? Bragging rights???