stay at home moms

What are some ways to make you SO notice how much you do at home? My husband said "not all of us can stay home and sit on or asses all day and complain, other people have real jobs." It really hurt my feelings and to top it off it was our anniversary yesterday. Stay at home moms are hard working people too. We cook, clean, do the shopping, take care of the children, make appointments. I make sure the house is clean so he doesn't have to come home after a long day and see a dorty house. He's never without a meal. Our dog is healthy and always taken care of. He has no idea what I do on a daily basis and I want him to appreciate me more.