could I be getting closer 😩

Second time mum here (36weeks3days)! A few weeks back I asked midwife about when the baby should engage second time round, she said they don't usually see second babies engage until delivery. Yesterday I went and she said I'm about 3/5 engaged but never said nomore as if I'm to expect him soon. I've been having loads of pressure down there and incredible lower back pain. Braxton hicks come and go sometimes regular for about an hour then stop completely. Any other non FTMs experienced this or are experiencing similar? Just want to know if I'm any closer to having this litte boy in my arms.