I want to have sex but I'm scared?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and it's became intense. We talk sexually and we've been sexual but not too far. We both want to have sex but I am scared of what I have heard about the pain of it? Advice?

Answer

It's not even supposed to hurt. If it does, you're too tense or not wet enough. My first time didn't hurt at all.

Answer

The pain isn't bad, you just have to breathe and take it slow. Also using lube helps. The fact that you are scared though may be an indicator that you are not ready which will make it more painful. Don't try to reason with yourself and tell yourself that you're ready. You'll know when it's time.

I want to have sex but I'm scared?

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