Needing to Vent

So I'm 6+3 weeks and I've been keeping my pregnancy a secret until I'm further along. Just immediate family knows right now including my mom, my step dad, my dad, brother, my husbands parents and his brother, and both of my grandparents. I have asked everyone to keep it a secret until I'm further along and ready to tell everyone. I know many people are comfortable with telling right away even with the chances of miscarriage. It's a personal choice. I just think it'll be harder on me if I have to explain and deal with the sad faces if I were to miscarriage. That's for me personally. Then I find out that my dad told my aunt last weekend which really bothered me and then today found out my moms parents told my aunt and uncle. I mean what's the point in asking people to keep a secret? It's my husbands and Is secret to tell when we are ready. I just feel so disrespected.