Do you think looking through SO phone is healthy?

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If you're doing it to make sure he's. it messaging other people or sneaking porn or something, that's a sign that your relationship isn't healthy, and that there are trust issues.

If you're just using his phone because it's closer than yours and you're too lazy to get up and find yours (I do this ALL the time lol) then that's fine.

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I say if you have nothing to hide, fork it over!

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No because it will cause problems. 
A phone is someone's privacy. If you wouldn't want someone looking through your phone then don't try to look though his. There's really no need for it. Plus by not going through each others phones your building your trust in each other even more.

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No. 
There is no better way to tell someone that you don't trust them than to demand access to all of their stuff. And if you don't trust this person, you shouldn't be with them.

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Respect for your partner's privacy is important. I would be extremely upset if my SO tried to access my phone, email, etc.

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Been with my man 6 years never have i even wanted to go through his phone let alone done it!! I dont think its healthy too do so!

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No I don't think it is, we never go thru each other's phone BUT if I had reason to suspect something I probably would.

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I never go theough my hubby's but he would not be upset if I did. If there is nothing to hide it should not be a big deal.

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It is not healthy if one person does not agree to having the phone looked through or only concedes to the request because they are afraid you will be unhappy if they deny you access. As long as both people agree that it's ok or if permission was granted, then that could be healthy. If you have to look through your partners phone without permission that means there is little to no trust or a high amount of insecurity on the part of the snooper. In both of these cases the relationships are almost always unhealthy to some extent. A truly healthy relationship is one where you trust your partner and communicate openly about any concerns. Checking your partners phone without permission is actually considered to be one of the warning signs of possible abuse. So really think about that. If you have no reason not to trust your partner, then the problem is your own insecurity and you need to deal with that rather then subjecting your partner to violations of privacy and accusations of not being trustworthy.

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I have complete access to all of his things and he to mine. There area several times we grab the others phone because it's closer or whatever but don't "go through" it. I wouldn't be mad if he did,  and he wouldn't be mad either.  There has been some infidelity in our marriage so we both take steps to never have to go there again.

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