questions 🤔

Question1: my son is 3 months old 🤗 and me and his father are not together. And his father wanted him to spend the night with him. So I'm asking at what age did you all start letting your child go with the father? And how many days do you let your child stay the night? 

(Breastfeeding moms)🍼 Question2: since my son don't want to take a bottle with me 🙄 lol he laughs and play around every time I try to give it to him. But he would take it for his father mother for some reason idk why lol but I'm fine with that. I'm asking, I wanted to finally have some wine 🍷 for the first time , and I wanted to know how would that go,  Do I have to pump and dump? Or I could keep it? Cause my son wouldn't be with me Saturday night and I wanted to finally go out and have a nice dinner.