So at 22 weeks we found out we have IUGR and TTTS we had surgery to correct the sharing and it was successful. We are almost 6 weeks post surgery and my little guy is still falling behind his brother. I am scared to death. I can't lose him. Or his brother. We have struggled with infertility for 14 years. We have two older kids and these boys are my miracles. We had given up on having a third child. And then all the sudden boom. Here they are. I'm so tired of fighting. Nothing has ever been easy with any pregnancy. We've lost 4 children.