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pregnancy jokes. drama

Basically cut a long story short

Me and my fiancé have been out tonight for my father in laws birthday. We had one alcoholic drink as we only drink on occasions and we don't drink a lot.

His cousin was in there who is 30

And he came over to speak to us.. he wasn't drunk but you could tell he's had a few. Anyway he's been winding my fiancé dad up all night which he wasn't happy about..

He came over and he was talking to my fiancé and then.. started to wind me up, saying " smile" ... and then says

" tell him (my father in law) you're pregnant.. tell him with triplets"

I said no I'm alright .. and he kept repeating the same thing and kept saying if you don't I will

So I kept saying no.. and just kept looking down.. I must of said no about 100 times.. while my fiancé just sat there opposite me. Just basically laughing.. and saying don't wind him up.

I felt so uncomfortable and mad.

I'm a very quiet person and I don't like to show people they are pissing me off if someone is rude to me I don't make a fuss I just ignore and laugh it off. I hate drama

But he kept on and on and on... this time last year.. we was going to tell my fiancé father I was pregnant.. but Sadly lost my baby boy. So he wouldn't of appreciated the "joke"

Anyway.. as he kept on and on and on.. I got up and left and waited for my fiancé outside.. he came out the pub stomping and said "fucking pathetic" I said what me? He kept on walking and called me a dick head and a prick for walking out..

He said 10 minutes before all that we was going home anywyay.

He kept walking away from me.. I couldn't walk fast as I had sore feet from my heels .. he said I'm not coming home tonight I'm going up my mothers (and handed me the keys) so burst out crying and said to him.. " make any other joke but not one that's so personal to Me" and he just said what ever.

I'm Sorry but there's only so much a person can take.. I have never made a scene ever in my life when I could have (as his family always pick on me.. but thinks it's in a funny way) I have never walked out or anything.

But when it comes to pregnancy .. it's just not funny!

I'm so disappointed in my fiancé!!!!!!!!

Did I handle it the right way? Or no?

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