HOW TO MAKE THE 🐱TIGHTER?

Okay so I've only had sex with two people in my entire life and an ex and I recently connected and it came across my mind that maybe I want to engage in that with him (since he was my first love and fate brought us back together) but idk if I'd be tight (enough) or if I would be loose? Cause idk bout you but hearing "damn baby you're tight" drives me crazy 😍. Sooooo how do I get tighter? 🙃