Picking out names

Seriously, it's so hard finding a perfect name for my baby girl... I got 2 boys and their name starts with a J so I want a J name.... I don't think I'm have a name until I'm actually at the hospital and finally see her but I wanted to get her a custom made diaper bag and shirts and stuffs made before she gets here.... My bf seriously is no help.... I'll tell him a name he'll just say that's cute but blah blah... He don't even like to feel her move... He says it feels weird and scary... I'm just going name her myself and not asked him anything else