So I'm 14 weeks and 4 days with triplets. First time mom. I have not really been super excited. Don't get me wrong I'm so happy and excited to be pregnant but I have really no desire to look at baby stuff, having a hard time planning anything and kinda get annoyed when others want me to be super into everything and want me to have everything figured out.

I know part of it is I am separated from DH, he's military and deployed, so I'm living at my mom's house and at the moment don't have a lot of room for anything. We're also moving to Georgia when DH gets back so It's like I feel homeless kinda at the moment.

My sister wants me to go shopping and wants me to get maternity clothes, it's getting close to time for that, my MIL wants me to already have a baby registry going... I dont even know the genders yet. It actually makes me feel overwelmed which I didn't think could get worse once I found out there were 3 little peanuts in there.

I'm also still scared something bad will happen, I'm high risk with multiples plus Gestational Diabetes, a whole other stressor. Still have not seen a high risk OBGYN, I got for my first OBGYN appointment in Texas Thursday. Switching doctors kinda sucks lol.

Anyways, I just feel like I should be more excited and be planning more. Is it normal to feel this way? I kept telling myself the further along I got the more into it I woukd get but so far not the case.