SO and I are fighting...

Am I out of line to tell my husband that I am not going to "try" for a boy after a year of nothing. No bfps, no af, no cycles... hormones out of wack. He says we have to time it just right to have a boy... yeah, because adding more pressure that he is the only male to continue his family name is going to make conceiving that much easier right.... gah. I have only just had my first AF in almost a year. Give me a break. *by try for a boy, I mean the old wives tales of how to 'make' a boy.