I'm going to try and make this as short as possible, but I need some advice and uplifting comments, girls! So, I've always been super close with my grandma, like we've just always shared a special bond. I see her every week faithfully and we talk all the time. My mom is also very close with her, but my mom moved to Florida last year. So, now my parents live in Florida and my husbands' parents live there too. We've been trying to relocate there, because we're also very close to our parents, and we want to be near them when it comes time for us to have children. I want my children to be close to their grandparents, as I am with mine. Whenever I've tossed the idea around in front of my grandma, she gets very upset and angry. I'm all she has left here, really. So, long story short, my transfer went through at work on Monday. I'm supposed to be starting my new job on Florida in 2 1/2 weeks, but I'm so nervous to tell my grandma and I know she is going to be heartbroken. It kills me just thinking about it, but I know it's the best move for me and my husband trying to advance our careers. I wish she would just move to Florida but she has already expressed that she has no interest. Am I being selfish for leaving? I'm just super upset about the whole thing and I need some advice. Thanks in advance. 😭