So Excited!! But Am i being selfish?

Question

This is my second pregnancy, I have a 2 almost 3 year old. I'll be 24 in August and my Man will be 26 in August. Anyway. This is his first child and my second. Before I got pregnant we both agreed that when we do have a baby, we would wait to find out the sex when its born. Well Noooowww! Lol He's so excited he doesn't want to wait until the birth. But I think waiting will make the moment even more special. Is it selfish of me to make him wait? I just want to do things differently this time.

Answer

Why don't u let him find out and u wait

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My husband and I were the same! He wanted to know and I had no desire in knowing. He even tried to compromise by saying that he would find out and not tell me which I knew wouldn't work because he would accidentally say something at some point :) we sat down and had a long talk to hear both sides , and that he just wanted to prepare for baby and thought the gender would help whereas I wanted a very special moment in the delivery room and therefore wanted a surprise. When he heard my reason it made his point of view change and he agreed to keep it a secret

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This gives me hope lol. Thanks for sharing. We'll haft to sit down and talk about it again. And come to common ground. But we have plenty of time to do that.

So Excited!! But Am i being selfish?

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