Only "just kinda pregnant"

So I had my second prenatal visit & I just turned 15wks & I know like I'm not "super pregnant" like you are in your 3rd trimester but this nurse asked me how far I was & when I told her she said " oh so your Just kinda pregnant" the fuck does that mean like no there's a baby in me it's got arms legs can move hear like i don't know I just found it rude as fuck; same with one of my family doctors, I went there because I was feeling really sick an tired & just not well an I told him I was pregnant & he's like " how did that happen" like are you dumb.