What do I do?

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So I'm 40 and my boyfriend is 46. I was single and non sexual for ten years before I decided to start dating again. Well i have a very high drive being single for so long this is almost like a new fun experience and I love sex. However he has ED and not a whole lot of drive. I'm starting to get frustrated and depressed and even thinking about breaking up over this. He is an awesome man does stuff is sweet and caring only thing lacking is sex. Am I a bad person for feeling that I deserve and want more? We have talked about it and he just says it's medical but this doesn't help me any like acknowledgeing a problem but.not wanting to do anything.about it so that I am happy. Any nice advice appreciated.

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You're not married, and you've finally put yourself out there. Nothing wrong with tasting other fish in the sea!

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Ur not a bad person, relationships end, you's aren't married, if you don't love him and there is nothing else that can be done to help his ED then move on

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There isn't really much you can do about ED. Research it yourself and learn about it. 
That's what I had to do because my fiancé wasn't willing to talk about it or bring me to his appointments. There is testosterone he can take in gel form which he puts it on a part of his body or pill form and there are exercises he can do to help it. Other than that changing up the way you guys have sex can also help it. I believe it's a mental thing too. If he thinks about it and if he's nervous about it while you're having sex he won't last long. If he feels bad about it he won't last long either and he definitely won't want to have sex. If you make him feel bad about and always bring it up he definitely isn't going to want to have sex either. I've known my fiancé for far too long to let ED get in the way of our relationship plus we have 3 kids with one on the way. For me it's not a huge deal and it's no reason to leave somebody over.

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