It's so hard to decide whether or not we want to continue to have our wedding the way we originally planned it. I just keep thinking about all the money that we're going to be spending because we aren't getting any help from anyone in or family we are paying for everything ourselves, and I can't help but think of all the money we have saved and can use towards getting a house starting a family or making sure we are financial secured. I don't know what do? What do you guys think we should do? any one have any ideas of how we can have a very small and inexpensive wedding? I'm open to any ideas because at this point we have come up with getting married in the court house then just going on a cruise.