bf troubles.. help pls??

Question

Recently my boyfriend has been liking a bunch of pics of sexy girls on instagram and everytime I see it, it makes me feel like shit. I feel like I'm not what he wants and that he would rather have those girls. We've talked about it but I still see it. I don't wanna be controlling him (making him unlike them and unfollow those girls) but I hate seeing it. I know that im super insecure and that's the main reason but idk how to feel and don't have someone to talk to about this. When I'm around him I don't feel special anymore.. idk what to think or feel.. help???

Answer

Maybe mention to him that it's uncomfortable to you or that you don't feel good with it. My bf does too but it's mostly like "hey look at this, I wanna see you in that" and we're okay with that. Just mention how you feel

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I had the same problem in the beginning of my relationship with my now husband. I told him I thought it was disrespectful, but he kept liking inappropriate videos and pictures. I told him it made me think he wasn't serious about our relationship and after I told him that he decided to delete his instagram. I never told him that he HAD to do it but I guess he just decided I was more important than that. You might have to wait and see how it plays out because it took a good 3-4 months of dating before he decided to stop.

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How long have you been together? If you are insecure, it might not get better especially if he's still doing it. You could always like sexy guys on Instagram and see how he reacts. But if you feel unwanted it's time to have a deep conversation with your boyfriend about where you stand in the relationship and if it's working or not or how/ if you both should improve on things.

bf troubles.. help pls??

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