Tell them or is it meddling?

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If you had someone that was in a relationship flirting with you (sorta🤔) would you contact their S/O and tell them or just think it's meddling and leave it alone because you weren't trying to do anything in the first place?

-Someone I went to high school with messaged me after seeing a aggravated status I put up. Here's the convo 👇🏼

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Good girl with telling him you're not interested in being the third wheel or being a mistress! Really yay!! Leave this one be mama.  The attention probably feels good , but this isn't right.  He's not right.  I wouldn't say anything to his gf.  I'd leave it be considering it was just a conversation.  People say things all the time that are wrong.  As long as it didn't extend into anything actually physical then let it die with you , and for Christ's sake love ...stay away from this guy  !! He's only trouble.  I'm sorry you're feeling down.  It will get better I promise ! Stay busy!

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If it's someone you've not had contact with in years.. I would just walk away!

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Ugh god he did so well trying to help u till them last messages. Had high hopes for the guy being a true friend to u there but seems as if it's a way to get in ya pants! Some people just have no respect x

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I wouldn't tell her. You did the right thing, now he is her problem. She probably already doesn't trust him and she'll probably see those messages… At least you did the right thing in the messages.

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I love how you handled that. I applaud you!!

I would leave it alone though.

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Put yourself in his gf shoes. Would you want to know if your man was doing this? I know I would...

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I would tell her.  Imagine if some girl could help you if you we're with an ass like that.

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I would tell her too. That's creepy! 👀

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I would definitely not tell her. you have enough to worry about and work on in your own life and you don't need any drama. just ignore him, move on and don't go live with him.  he saw that you were down and I don't think he was being entirely genuine, I think he got in contact while you were down in the dumps so he could pray on you to cheat with.   Just focus on you and taking care of you.  good luck. it WILL get a lot better.

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Reading this made me cringe. Reminded me how sleazy some guys can be. I'd just walk away and block every form of contact with this dirtbag

Tell them or is it meddling?

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