Let me just get this out please

There are so many women out there getting pregnant that don't need anymore kids. I know girls that are pregnant and just don't need anymore kids at this time. They don't have their own houses, don't even have jobs nor do the dads. Or the woman is working her ever loving pregnant butt off just to get through before baby #2 arrives because daddy won't provide. We have our own home, husband works and has givin me the privilege of staying home with our son. We are having a hard time getting pregnant but than seeing all these people have babies who need to get a few things in line before having anymore. Mainly a job. I just don't get it. We are on our own, with money even sat back and we're still doing something wrong apparently. I have cried out to God. IDK what else to do. I'm really emotional because I'm having AF which means no baby this month. And I'm always excited for a baby because, no matter the situation, they are blessings. I just wanna know which duck isn't in a row for us because it looks like they are all walking a pretty fine line to me.

And I'm not judging anyone for having a hard time finding a job or living under someone else's roof. Me and my husband both have. But we are on our feet now and have things in order. And I know a guy that just quit his job, lives with his mom and whole family basically and his girlfriend is pregnant and neither of them are hitting a lick at a snake to support this baby and she has 2 more kids besides this one that she only gets half the time because a custody battle. I guess I just feel people should have more financial stability and more of a plan before having kids and we have that and things just aren't working out. My pity party is over!