This is going to be our second daughter. Our first daughter has MY middle name of "Jo"... So, I wanted to give our second daughter something of her parents just like her big sister has. Neither my husband nor I have any family names that are cute or go well with the name Harper. I'm looking for opinions on using HIS middle name of "Ryan" for her middle name. I really do not want to have to pick a random name to put in the middle...but I cannot get hubby to budge on allowing Ryan for her middle name! Is it really that bad?! ...because I love it! 😭