Not feeling good about this cycle...

So I was supposed to be doing the SMEP plan this cycle but it hasn't worked out so well, started out every other day but I've had backache and my SO has been especially tired so we just haven't kept up with it 😕 tomorrow is 5 days into my fertile window and we have only BD'd once! I haven't had a positive opk yet so I am hoping my surge was day 8, the day before I started taking them and the most positive looking line, or that it's yet to come. Hopefully we can get back to every other day from tomorrow... this baby isn't gonna make itself!!