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I'm watching a programme about sex and there's a young lady on there saying that she's single and wouldn't want a relationship because she "can bang anyone", yet she's not having orgasms!

This made me think that sex is soooooo much better when you're in a relationship. Firstly because the man cares enough to want to make you orgasm, secondly because communicating about sex is a lot less awkward and thirdly because you know each other's body inside out.

So yeah, banging everyone isn't the best answer! 😂

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There's honestly no correlation between good sex in a relationship and out of one aside from the mental effect being in a relationships has onnthe individual. I've had plenty of great sex with people I just hooked up with and very poor boring sex wth people I was in a relationship with for over a year. I can agree though, that it's all about communication, if you aren't willing to be open and communicate with the person you're having sex with it could be pretty lackluster.

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True and sex is more enjoyable when you are in love with your partner.

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I don't see how being in a relationship has to do with orgasming unless it is a mental block. I have been with men in and out of relationships that cared about my satisfaction.

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In every relationship I've ever been in the sex has gotten boring. Maybe I'm easily bored but I just feel like sleeping with someone new is a very exciting feeling. Though there's something to be said for how comfortable sex is in a long term relationship.

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I prefer single. I can make myself orgasm better than any man ever could so that's not an issue. I don't like having to check up with someone every time I want to go out or wear something slutty.

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Being in a relationship only has an impact on orgasm if it's a turn off or on for you.

It doesn't change anything outside of that. I've only ever experienced two orgasms and have been sexually active for four years. One by myself and one with my serious partner. I ENJOY sex, but only ever reach a certain threshold. Doesn't mean I'm going to STOP having sex, how else am I going to learn with my partner on what makes me tick when with him?😂

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I haven't had one night stands, but I did sleep with my husband on the first date. He always been very conscious of my pleasure though. I had horrible sex with my ex husband though and we were married for 5 years. 
 
So I don't think there's any correlation between great sex and relationship status. 
 
Congrats on the orgasms though.

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It depends on the relationship you're in. I've been in a relationship where the guy didn't care or make any effort.

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It really depends on what the person is looking for. Neither is objectively better than the other. I love being with my partner, but I loved being single too. It's not a competition.

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I think when your in love sex is better at least for me. But I've had better sex when not in a relationship with someone I was with for two years. I think guys also care about their ego and while they want to get that nut they also don't want you to tell your friends that the d was wack.

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