There is a guy I am really close to. On Valentine's weekend, he came over to spend time with me. We eventually were intimate that night. I've had sex before and this was definitely not sex. The connection, chemistry and the first 45 mins with fully dressed was too strong and magnetic. He has told me in the past that he is not looking for a relationship. What is so confusing to me is the events that took place. My question is is it possible to for someone to make love to you but not love you or be in love with you? Is he in love with me but is hiding his feelings because of his fear of being hurt? I'm not regretting doing it. I'm not bothered that I did it. I'm confused because I don't know what happened. Help me out.