Feel like I can't keep the house clean the way he wants it.

I'm a SAHM and my SO works. I take care of our house and he helps me when he is home. We never used to bicker or argue about petty shit like this before. Today he's in the kitchen getting a plate and I have my Tupperware containers above my plates in my cabinets. Yes I'll admit they are messy and sometimes a lid will fall out. But hey who's Tupperware is perfect? Also I have a 4 month old baby. I manage to vaccume, do the dishes, sweep the kitchen, keep up with the laundry, take care of the dog, make sure every room in the house is in tact, and maybe take a shower if I'm lucky all in one day. So he starts bitching cause the cabinet was mess. And I brought the laundry down this morning into our kitchen waiting to bring it in the basement to do a load and he says "the laundry can fucking wait" lmao. Okay. I get that he works but his excuse is always that he works. I used to work. It's not that fucking hard. Being a mom is a full time job. I wish he would realize what I actually do insted of petty things I didn't do and tell me "hey your doing a great job, I love you". But whatever. #ShittyDayRant.