Is it painful?

Kj • ✨⭐✨
So me and my boyfriend have had talks about losing our virginity together and we want to do it and we have had make outs that start to turn something more to where his hand slides down there etc. And Im totally ready for my first time and i wanna if its gonna hurt or is everyone different and if he ends up "popping my cherry" do we stop or is it okay to keep going?