Is it painful?

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So me and my boyfriend have had talks about losing our virginity together and we want to do it and we have had make outs that start to turn something more to where his hand slides down there etc. And Im totally ready for my first time and i wanna if its gonna hurt or is everyone different and if he ends up "popping my cherry" do we stop or is it okay to keep going?

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It's okay! You can keep going , it will hurt at first but after a while it will feel good! It's normal to feel discomfort at first

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for me it didn't hurt one bit. i had been fingered a lot though months before hand so i'm sure that helped a lot. but yeah it depends on you and the guy, definitely make sure it's someone you're comfortable with. like extremely comfortable

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As far as is sounds everything you think you know isnt real. It's not supposed to hurt

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Just relax and enjoy it, it doesn't have to hurt. If you're nervous then it might cause some discomfort but just relax and always be safe.

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Ok so I'm so glad I saw this bc I JUST lost my virginity Saturday, my boyfriend and I both did, it didn't hurt as much as I thought it would, and the pain was gone in minutes which is great because I have a pretty low tolerance for pain. Also the only part that hurt was at the entrance bc the entrance is more tight skin than muscle so that skin was stretching, but it didn't hurt at all. So he pooped my cherry and I bled and we were both like woah this is really happening and we kept going. I didn't even feel my hymen break, I only knew it did bc the blood. So I've been spotting since then but its has stopped, it only did up til this morning I think. Most women spot for one to three days after the first intercourse so expect that and don't worry if it doesn't happen. Good luck and have fun!

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It is different for everyone but yes it does kinda hurt. Luckily the dude who took my virginity was literally smaller than a Vienna sausage. So it hurt but not really really bad. I cried more because I was upset I lost it to a man who I wasn't in love with it had a relationship with. He was just my manager. I was 16 and just wanted to get it over with. I bled just a little bit. But when they 'pop your cherry' you can keep going. If at any time you want to stop tho, tell him and he needs to stop.

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