9+2 weeks

So I'm 9 weeks pregnant and even though it should be a happy time it's really not. My step father in law committed suicide last week and his wife ( my oh mum ) is obviously taking it very hard. We're now living with his mum and will be for quite a few years to come, I really want to tell her but I just don't know how or when is the right time. I have my first appointment tomorrow and obviously morning sickness has been underway for the past 3 weeks, even though I'm managing to hide it I really want to tell her as I feel it may cheer her up. She already has grandkids but this will be our first and her sons first. Stuck in such a rut I just don't know what to do 😟😟