Should I say anything??

Question

My ex and I split this past November, but recently started talking again. Sunday he wants to take me out.  During our break up I did date and have sex with another man. Should I say anything about it or no?? We do live in an area where everybody knows everybody.

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I wouldn't you weren't together it's none of his business

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My former fwb told his ex about us for some reason and his ex sent me a long message and blocked me. I never understood why he would think that was her business, but I bet it was just to make her jealous. Either way, I was angry because I don't kiss and tell--like, what if she was a crazy person willing to hurt me?! He gave her my full freakin name!!! We had a long talk after that lol 
Anyways, what I'm trying to say in so many words is, you two weren't together and I don't see the benefit of telling him. In fact, it would probably just tear you two apart again or result in awkwardness. Though, just keep in mind, an ex is an ex for a reason. I won't tell you not to reconnect with your ex, but just be cautious with your feelings.

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I wouldn't . I mean unless he really did want to sit down and talk about what we did while on break but it shouldn't even be relevant . I would probably only bring it up if there was an sti or the other guy was a blabber mouth and eventually going to tell him .

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No reason for him to know if you guys weren't together. And on top of that that will bring up problem that can be avoid. And even at that it's none of his business it's yours and nobody else. He is not your dad to where you have to report back to him with he was gone. So no don't tell him.

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I wouldnt, I dont think its any if his business especially since you guys were broken up

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I would ask your partner, see if they would rather know or prefer to not. If it's anyone you could run into again (friends, their distant family) or something happened (abuse, sti, lack of protection, etc.) I would fully encourage disclosure then.

Should I say anything??

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