So I do have a condition that would make sex painful for me anyway and I have been going to therapy. Apparently I have an very low sex drive and I just don't have that desire to want to have sex. This of course makes me not even have the drive to want to date any guy unless their either have a low sex drive like me or asexual at this point. Is that bad? The thought of having sex just isn't so important to me. I'd like to actually have it just see what the big deal about is...but with how my condition is going...it doesn't seem very likely.