I might be over reacting but..

Kendra
Okay so I have been dating this boy and it will be our six year anniversary this year. We were high school sweethearts etc. Well my freshman year everything was great and the my sophomore year we broke up and he was over my house giving me all my stuff and I told me his was being selfish because I wasn't happy and he basically told me like no f u.  Which is probably what I would've said. Anyway my mom heard everything and she was like I don't want you to talk to him again. Well we started dating again a couple weeks later and my parents forbid me from seeing him. So for secret I dated him all through out high school. And secretly meet up with him and stuff. Well when I turned 18 I started to practically live with him and they couldn't tell me no but they have basically forgave him and they don't care anymore. Okay so that's the back story lol but my mom recently had surgery and I'm like upset that he didn't ask how it went. Like he doesn't care about my family at all when I love his and I go to Christmas with his family and everything. So would you be mad if your boyfriend didn't care about your family? Like even his sister asked my how my mom was and he didn't.