GIRL ON GIRL: Strap it on
Strap on sex is totally fun. It's a great way to experiment with pleasure and power. Wearing it might help you get in touch with your masculine side or might just be a cute femme way to please your girl. One of you may be more into wearing it, or you both may want to try it out—it's totally up to you.
If one of you doesn't have a strap on already, how about a little shopping trip to your local sex shop? The employees can tell you all about how to use one. There are usually two parts to a strap on: The actual dildo and the belt it sits in. Belts are often leather, but you can also find specialty panties which function like a strap-on belt. Make sure the belt fits properly.
Before you use your new toy, get comfortable wearing it alone fist. Try walking around with it when you're home alone. It's tricky to maneuver that thing (we feel for the boys here), so practice makes perfect!
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