Restentful of my husband

Been married 3 years, together 6. Have two kids under two. I'm a SAHM. He has never lost his bachelor lifestyle mentality. Constantly out with friends and coming home late without any notice. He's going on a "guys vacation" to Mexico tomorrow for 6 days. He came home a little early from work today and I got so excited thinking that he came home to spend a little extra time with me and the kids. Nope. He came home to get money for our rent and to give me a list of things I need to do for him for his vacation prep and made it known that he wanted it done before he came back home. He then got a text message, ran out the door, yelled at our one year old for trying to follow him and told me he would be "home later that usual". Like seriously? He gets off work at 5 and came home at 730 yesterday with NO PHONECALL and said he was having a beer with his friends at work. I was so worried since he wasn't answering his phone and when he came home and realized I was worried he told me I was crazy. I just feel drained. It feels like he doesn't care and takes me completely for granted. I've talked to him about how I feel a million times and he always says his life isn't going to change just because he has kids. When I point out how my friends husbands hardly ever go out with friends anymore because of spending time with their families, he just says that they must live really sad lives😒 What would you do?