Birth plans?

I don't know how much I can expect from a hospital birth but since I can't afford to have a midwife at home I'd like to have pretty much this plan

I really don't want them to separate me or my spouse from the baby

if I can't follow my husband can

I want him present for all tests screening whatever I don't want my baby behind closed hospital doors.

I also don't want them checking my crotch more than once before birth, too much intervention leads to problems infections and c-sections

I don't want to be sped up, also causes tearing and c-sections

no medicine no Ivs no wires

I want to walk around until I'm ready

Id also like to have scented oils and headphones with hard core screemo lmao

I will be asking doc when I get closer too

just curious on yalls experience and opinions