Finding out the sex.

Claire
DH wants to find out whether we're having a girl or boy and I'm really not fussed. I wouldn't have been bothered to being told but I'm happy to know if it means that much to him.
 
​We asked the parents though and none of them want to know until the baby gets here. 
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​Did you find out but manage to keep it a secret too?
​Did it take anything away emotionally when the baby arrived?