Scared/ Can she legally do that??

I've never been more scared in my life.

My mom threatened me today that if she found out I've had sex with my boyfriend, (which I have a few times now) she'd ground me until I'm 18 and take me out of school and force me not to see him anymore and that she'd even kick me out of the house and I get my dad to hurt my boyfriend. Last most she said that if I was having sex I should tell her so she can make sure I'm safe but NOW???

I hate lying to her but i also can't risk this anymore. Like can she even legally do any of this?

I talked to my boyfriend about this and he said that he's fine with not having sex with me for awhile and that he'll still like hanging out with me and being with me even without sex which is a pretty good relief.

Here's one of his responses that made me feel a lot better about our relationship and life in general