best way to get over first love?

Question

I'm wondering how exactly to do this, one thing i want to do is focus on myself, go out on dates with myself, focus on college but at the end of the day i'm going to sleep alone with those thoughts.. truly don't know  if time even heals? And i sure don't want a guy to help me get over him

Answer

I was with my first love for 4 years. It's been 2 since we broke up and truthfully I still think about him often. Our lives are very different now and we're both different people. Time does make it easier but overall it's your own mindset that helps you get past him. There will be moments where you will be heartbroken and sad. Take the time to be sad and let yourself feel those emotions but don't allow it to bring you down long term. Keep yourself busy doing your own thing-the things that make you happiest and keep your mind occupied. Surround yourself with friends and family and the people you care most about. Delete him off EVERY social media outlet and refrain from gossip from mutual friends, creeping him online or texting him. In hindsight this was a HUGE help for me. Focus on bettering yourself and doing what makes you happy and you'll wake up and realize you did it all on your own and you really didn't need him for any of it. Good luck and stay strong girlie!

Answer

Go out with your friends. Your girls will always make sure you're having fun. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders.

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