TTC advice??

So, my fiancé and I very recently started TTC. Last year we decided I'd stop my birth control on my 31st birthday (4/25/2016), but we were more of the mindset that if it happened it happened, but we weren't actively tracking anything. We got pregnant last November, but miscarried in January and I had a d&e in February. I wanted to go back on the pill, but he was adamant about trying again. I'm currently in my fertile window and we've BD-ed once. He knows we should have sex more often, but if I pressure him it will stress him out and he won't want to. Any advice on how to make it not feel like work?? I have lingerie and that stuff, it's more that he's just so exhausted and stressed after work that he just wants to relax and get a good night's sleep.