cheated???

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I don't know what to do girls... I just found out my fiancé I've been with him for 7 years is lookin up exes on Facebook we have two beautiful kids together ...I confronted him but got the cold shoulder .... Help me please I don't know to stay or wat ?? My decision effects my children

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You're going to leave because he creeped some Facebook profiles? Sounds like there are bigger issues here.

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He's giving you the cold shoulder? What is that crap?!

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Just ask him why he did it and if he still has feelings. It's not fair to you to stay if he is wishing he was with someone else.

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Did he look them up once or twice, or many times, like a frequent, regular habit?

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You need to have self confidence and don't ever devalue your self and think that you are useless. The most important thing is your kids at this moment. From your post it's not clear if he is actually cheating or just trying to get in touch with his exes! So first thing is to clear that out. If he is having conversations that offend you then surely you must tell him that you are not happy with it and that needs to stop. Let him have his say and it's better to have a mature conversation than panicking and getting things worse as it involve your children. If he still doesn't bother to address the issue you should decide what steps you want to take. But don't devalue your self for the actions of your fiancé. You are not wrong here so take charge of things and be bold to take decisions for you and your children. You deserve the best.

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The children will be fine in the long run. If he can't or won't even talk to you about let alone feel extremely awful about it then you need to do what's best for you. Sounds like he doesn't give two fucks and that's unfortunate because you deserve better than that.

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