frustrated and sad

We've been trying for a year and no luck yet. At the end of December the company we both worked for went under and we were both unemployed. We still kept trying but I knew it wasn't going to happen because of the stress and I wasn't eating well. I was depressed and just didn't take care of myself. I'm already a big gal and I knew it would be a struggle. My husband recently got a job with the state we live in so the stress is starting to lighten up and I am starting to work on me again.